Thanks again everyone. She moved out over the weekend. Not completely but the bulk is gone. Strange in this house alone. Not used to the quiet yet. Trying to get everything straight around here and mentally start over. One day at a time I guess. Got my little boy to keep me company some though. I'll concentrate on him. All's well here.
One day at a time is right. I wish I'd looked at it that way, but I've never been known to take a laid back approach to anything. Be thankful that you have your son at home to keep you focused on the right path. When I divorced, my son left for college about a month later, and I was truly alone, and off the leash, so to speak. I put the Crown Royal whiskey factory on overtime for about 4 1/2 years, beat that, then decided to run. Yes, run. I wore out 3 or 4 pairs of running shoes, and one day, I realized I was going to make it. To make a short story long, after being single for 9 years, I met the love of my life and my best friend(and riding partner), and am living happily ever after. Hang in there, it will all work out for the best.
Hey hogwild... hang in there.
I'll spare you my analytical psychobabble and just say: Keep positive.
Remember, above all else, your child in all of this. It can be devastating to a youngster. Be there for him. Don't put him in the middle of your differences with his mother. Don't just hope he comes thru this OK, make sure he does.
My mother never saw the irony in calling me a son of a bitch.
I'm sure she'll be a peach to deal with as long as everything is going the way she wants. At least that's how my X is. i try to to the best i can for the kids and the X if i can stomache it, the rest is out of your hands
A friend of mine says "Women, can't live with them, can't live with them!" I think some women have snakes in their heads, some have the cute harmless garter snakes and others have cobras......some, but not all. If you have a good woman, don't f*** it up! Been there and done that.....as well as been down the road with a true psycho too!
Been there...Done That...Got the T-Shirt taken from Me in Court...so I understand...hang in there..it can be a tough road....but when it's all said & done...You will be better off..Just don't do it again...Look at Me post Divorce...Brand New Truck & Brand New Road Glide....traded the 42 year old for a 31 year old...& have more money than I ever did when I was married....but it takes time....Good Luck...