Maybe a little of both. I don't know how old you are, but things change over time, and the seat may just need to be re-upholstered with new foam. I am a firm believer that a super stiff bike I had in the past contributed to the need for back surgery.
Have you changed your riding position? This sometimes can affect certain body parts in different ways.
I would look into new foam for your seat first.
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